Congratulations, you’ve found ‘the one’ you’ve set the date, found your venue and are making decisions left right and centre, the only thing you haven’t done yet is shop for your wedding dress. For some brides to be they have dreamt of wedding dresses since they were a little girl but for many it’s the most daunting thing in the world. If this is you, please know you are not alone!
You feel like everyone has an opinion on when you should start, what you should look for and they want to come with you! So let me set you straight.. it’s up to you! Who you ask to shop with you, how many you try on, where you go and what you spend and ultimately what you choose!
As soon as you search one thing about weddings on your phone you will have noticed that you start to be bombarded with more and more and more wedding images, now some may be useful but lots are unrealistic AI generated images that would make your hair curl if you found out the real price!
So let’s break it down when it comes to dress shopping, let me tell you how we think brides can stay sane without loosing their heads and getting carried away – simple, don’t over think everything and follow your heart!
Firstly, stay local if you can, if you want to try your dress on once you’ve had a hair trial or simply to check the colour of your dress against your shoes you don’t want to be driving for hours. Make sure the boutique you choose is transparent when it comes to costs, do you have to pay for an appointment, do they have a seamstress, do you have to pay for a bag for your dress?
When you book your appointment don’t feel like you have to take everyone because they are excited, keeping it to the few so you can hear your own thoughts is key. Your confidence to say ‘yes to the dress’ comes from your heart and not everyone else’s voice, if dress number two is the one for you, you really don’t need to try another 15 dresses on and confuse yourself, saviour the moment and stay in the dress that makes your heart sing for longer!!!
If you have no idea where to start then your bridal stylist is there to help you, don’t be afraid to ask questions and speak your thoughts, we are here for you every step of the way!
Start as soon as you are ready, and don’t forget to follow your heart xxx